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 Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 1:39 am
So, I'm getting to the point where I'm very self-conscious about that certain lack of certain things... And with going full-time next semester, it would be good to address that certain lack as best as possible, IMO.
...Yeah. sweatdrop
So...
Do you pack? Why or why not?
When do you pack?
What do you do to make it look more realistic? (E.g., if it's not a packy but something else...)
Anything else??
Thanks all, I really appreciate it.
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 9:16 am
I wish I could help, but I don't pack and don't have the biggest desire to. Nobody can tell what I've got in my underwear on a day-to-day basis, and although I do have the sort of sensation of lacking something, it doesn't bother me enough to spend money on potentially embarrassing equipment. One of the things that puts me off packing right now is the problem of my flatmates or parents finding me cleaning it, for example.
I'd like to own a stand-to-pee device, though I'm happy enough using stalls, and at some point I'll invest in a good c**k to use for sex, but on a day-to-day basis, it's no big deal. I've stared at enough crotches to know that it's impossible to tell what a guy's stashing down there unless his trousers are hideously tight.
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 9:58 am
[Do you pack? Why or why not?
I do. Sometimes.
Mostly because I either A)feel like it or B)I'm going someplace in public and I'm wearing tight pants. I've done it a few times while swimming now too.
Spatter- XD
I did/still do stare at crotches from time to time and you don't really see much. Unless, yes, they are hideously tight. Hehehe. Which is why I do it when I wear girl pants. Or tight pants. You can see it a little. And even if nobody's checking my crotch, I enjoy seeing it. Also when I'm wearing it and my boyfriend grabs me there it turns me on.[/perv]
When do you pack?
When I feel like it, or when I already left my c**k in my pants so when I put them on, it's there. Also when I'm wearing tight pants, or when I'm in a gay bar.
What do you do to make it look more realistic?
Err... nothing. Outside of my pants, it's pretty pink, although the color has worn to a more subtle pink now, which is nice. Corn starch also tones down the color and makes it feel less sticky.
But I can tell you what kind of STUPID things I do which make me happier! ;D
I gave my c**k a frenum piercing. Aha. Hahahha.
My favorite c**k piercing is called a apadravyas. Maybe I'll get around to that.
Anything else??
Yes!! It's about HOW to pack it... I never bought a harness because A) I'm poor and B) I didn't want to look like I was strapping on bondage gear.
I don't like the feeling of the packy immediately against my skin, nor is it a good thing to keep against you down there because of the cornstarch.
So I started wearing two pairs of underwear and the packy in between.
This sucks in the summer. D;
So I picked up another method off of a certain someone where you create a pouch and pin it to the inside of your jeans where the c**k would be. This way, it's not in your underpants, it's not directly against you and irritating, and you don't really have to worry about it falling out onto the bathroom floor when you pull down your pants.
Mine is really conveniant. I sewed two thongs I never wore together, and one of them had a zipper in the front. So I just unzip it to take my packy in and out. :3 I also left one of the thongs with straps incase I need to wear it without pinning it.
This worked super for when I went to McDonalds on Halloween wearing only a paper bag... XD]
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 1:46 pm
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 3:14 pm
Ok, thanks you two! That helps a bit.
What about... not-real-packys? Like... socks and the like? Ever done that in public and how do you make it realistic-ish? sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 11:17 pm
sometimes i pack. i go on and off with it. when i'm feeling particularly interested in passing i'll sometimes pack because it makes me feel like there's something there... it's like a physical reminder to make my mannerisms more "manly" (such as how to cross my legs, for example). it's pretty ridiculous, really. and i like the way it feels to have something there. but most of the time i don't pack because i don't really feel a need to. i don't do it so that i'm more likely to pass, just that when i'm feeling more interested in passing (i.e. feeling particularly pathetic about my inability to pass) i'll also feel more of a need to feel like there's something there. i use socks for packing, but i used to have a packer... it was just really poor quality and i hated it so i didn't use it for long. oh, and as for how i pack - whether it's socks or a packer - i use the hole part of my boxer briefs so it's not next to my skin. oh, and i don't do anything to make things more realistic - i don't do it so it's noticeable.
and then sometimes i'll hard pack when i'm going out somewhere special (and safe) with my lady. you can come to your own conclusions about that one. but with that i'll tuck it down the leg of my boxer briefs to keep it from being too visible. and i'll baggy pants, as well.
but really i don't pack very much at all these days because i stopped liking it so much (besides the hard packing... which is completely different). it's not like it does anything, really.
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 11:49 pm
I don't pack, because I don't feel the need to. I'm pretty happy with what's down there and really don't want a c**k. And don't want or feel a need to make it look like I have one. It's just a personal thing for me, something I don't feel the need to do. I guess most of my self-consciousness goes toward my chest rather than my crotch.
I also seem to be prone to yeast infections and annoying rashes when anything irritates the skin in/near my crotch. I figure that packing probably wouldn't help with that.
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Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2007 6:08 am
Thambos Ok, thanks you two! That helps a bit. What about... not-real-packys? Like... socks and the like? Ever done that in public and how do you make it realistic-ish? sweatdrop I've tried socks out of curiosity, in the privacy of my own home, and I never quite got the hang of it. They just give me a preposterously large bulge, even in baggy trousers, and they're difficult to hold in place - I think you'd need two pairs of underwear, and possibly safety pins too. I seem to remember reading something about a condom filled with hairgel making a half-decent cheap packer, but again, I'm not sure how you'd keep that in place. (And I'd be terrified of it getting punctured and covering me in goo, even though I know condoms don't tear that easily.)
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Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2007 11:32 am
I'm planning to invest in one of the pack-n-play models from LolaJake because, for me, having a p***s IS a big deal.
I will pack with a sock on days when I want to feel particularly manly or whatever, because I am very self conscious (probably to an unhealthy level) about my certain lack of equipment. I use a rather small sock that just sits inside my briefs so that the bulge is tiny, if noticeable at all (especially as a small guy like myself wouldn't normally have an enormous p***s), and feel free to adjust it in public (as bio guys do that ALL THE TIME XD) if I feel like it's coming loose or something.
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Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2007 12:23 pm
Spatterdash I seem to remember reading something about a condom filled with hairgel making a half-decent cheap packer, but again, I'm not sure how you'd keep that in place. (And I'd be terrified of it getting punctured and covering me in goo, even though I know condoms don't tear that easily.) I've got a friend that does that, but I think it would too... Not realistic feeling... IDK, I think maybe it's just the random semi-liquid being anywhere near me that freaks me out about that one. I'm sure that there is an easy way to keep it in place. I guess I should prolly answer my own questions now, just to help some other people out too. Yeah, whenever I do pack (always at home, never in public) I do layer the undergarments to keep it in place, though sometimes it moves a bit but you can fix it easily. I tend to just go with socks, but I've got really small socks so they don't make anything noticeable. I try to keep it about the size that I think I would be. Um.... Yeah... I guess maybe I'm just afraid of someone being able to tell somehow that it's not real, which would make me sad. sad
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Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 11:53 am
I first started packing with a softpack (babeland.com has the one). I then upgraded to a stand to pee packer from djknowsdicks.com which lasted for quite awhile. My only issue with both is storing them in corn starch and that they get tacky and gross pretty fast. Good thing is that the are somewhat realistic to touch, and in my mind give me a bit of confidence knowing that it is there. I used to pack when I would go to places that I thought were "queer friendly" gay/lesbian bars and clubs, an LGBT center.
I've never packed at work or anyplace that I feel would put me at risk since I'm not out, and scared shitless about coming out.
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Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 1:32 pm
I'm saving up for a Piss Packer From Djknowsdicks.com How much was yours Nygeel13? :3
I made one out of socks and old tights. I use it when I cosplay and such, just not at work or home. I'm saving up for a full body vest and the Piss packer from DJknowsdicks.com so hopefully I can wear it and use it without causing TOO much confusion.
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Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 7:21 am
Prince Kokushi I'm saving up for a Piss Packer From Djknowsdicks.com How much was yours Nygeel13? :3
I made one out of socks and old tights. I use it when I cosplay and such, just not at work or home. I'm saving up for a full body vest and the Piss packer from DJknowsdicks.com so hopefully I can wear it and use it without causing TOO much confusion. Well I think I payed for it before the jump in prices. I don't remember exactly how much it was but it did the job. My new problem is that I lost my p***s and can't find it >.< I was looking at other sites because I think there are cheaper ones out there. The STUD is $43 but ooo it's $30 for the holidays! I'm submitting a request for one.
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Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 12:06 pm
:O I might just have to get one next week~! The com. vest can wait another week. XD And can I totally quote the "I lost my p***s and I can't find it." XD It made me crack up.
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Posted: Fri Dec 14, 2007 3:17 pm
I own a packer, and I wear it once in a blue moon. I don't do it very often, much for the reasons that Spat brought up.
I mean, if anything, it just reminds me more of what I don't have, and what I'm attempting to compensate for. . _.
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