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NIMVIT

 
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 12:26 am


Meh best friend has been changing a lot...she's just turned bi...she's made some new friends and during the whole process she's been pushing meh further and further...I don't know why, but she hates meh, I know it and her sis knows it.

We've been best friends for three years...THREE YEARS..And i'm not givin this up till she ses she doesn't wanna be meh friend nemore. Well since she's turned bi she's hadda lotta crushes and according to her latest journal entry she has 10 other prospects outta friends that are bi too...I feel like to actually be her friend I hafta be bi or hawt.

lately meh and meh other friend pulled this classic prank on her and it fricked her out and she got angry, and I feel she's more angry at meh then the other person I pulled this prank with. It's nawt fair!
PostPosted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 9:04 pm


That really sucks. but your going to have to have a talk with her and ask her why does she act as if she's angry at you. and if she would like you to stay away. i know that you've been her friend for a long time but don't allow anyone to treat you like crap it's better to just walk away.

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shani26
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 9:56 pm


Sometimes you need a brake from somone in order to miss him. Try to take a one week vaction from her and see what happen.
PostPosted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 12:10 am


shani26
Sometimes you need a brake from somone in order to miss him. Try to take a one week vaction from her and see what happen.

She's been avoiding meh for 'bout that long and even longerr...
stare

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 6:13 am


My_HeArTs_UnReCyClAbLe
shani26
Sometimes you need a brake from somone in order to miss him. Try to take a one week vaction from her and see what happen.

She's been avoiding meh for 'bout that long and even longerr...
stare

then avoid her too... domokun
PostPosted: Sat Jul 19, 2008 3:29 pm


koolcat18
My_HeArTs_UnReCyClAbLe
shani26
Sometimes you need a brake from somone in order to miss him. Try to take a one week vaction from her and see what happen.

She's been avoiding meh for 'bout that long and even longerr...
stare

then avoid her too... domokun

All I wanna do is just act pissed..
I'm so mad at her, meh and meh other BEST friend both..
<33

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shani26
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 2:32 pm


My_HeArTs_UnReCyClAbLe
koolcat18
My_HeArTs_UnReCyClAbLe
shani26
Sometimes you need a brake from somone in order to miss him. Try to take a one week vaction from her and see what happen.

She's been avoiding meh for 'bout that long and even longerr...
stare

then avoid her too... domokun

All I wanna do is just act pissed..
I'm so mad at her, meh and meh other BEST friend both..
<33

Then tell her how you fill, mybe things will change for the best, it is not good to lock your feelings.
PostPosted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 10:32 am


sadly this has happened to me once, but mine didn't end well.

i had a friend who was my best friend but she always replaced me each year but by the end she reailized i was her friend and came back to hang with me, then i found out the only reason why her friends didn't like me is because she was telling them lies and we all became friends besides for her cuz she got all mad about me being friends with her friends......

anyways... the point of my story is that i think you should just stick by her side, make her see your her best friend, when everyone else doesn't help her, you try to help her, when her friends are jerks and leave her, be right there to walk her through it. in the end she will see your her true friend, and if not, then she isn't really a friend anymore... sorry.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 9:21 pm


I'm sorry surprise, but I am going to have to disagree with you completely.

It sounds like your friend is showing her true colors, if you know what I mean... Well, I say, she isn't worth it...

Friends are there through thick and thin, and if she thinks she's hot s**t just because she's bisexual, it sounds to me like she's just in it for the attention.

Besides, whatever happened to boys come and go, but friends are forever?
Or Bros before hoes?

There are TONS of people in the world, billions even, so try to go out and make some new friends, or hang around with some of the other friends you have and get to know them a little bit better... it will make you feel a bit better yourself, and you won't have to deal with your friend.

Whatever happens, will happen.
PostPosted: Sun Sep 21, 2008 6:25 pm


so yeah
kaila
tats weird
u 2 r friends again rite?
but me and u havent been tlkin 2 much
y?
i mean i miss u
we nd 2 hang out some time

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