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 Posted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 4:55 am
As most of you know, I recently had a baby. Ever since then my husband and I have briefly discussed the topic of 'What if we accidentally get pregnant again?' I know of all the techniques not to get pregnant, and we use condoms. Heck, he even pulls out most of the time. But as a husband and wife, we enjoy the pleasure of him being inside me while he orgasms, still with a condom on.
Just recently I was on a progesterone only birth control which I had to stop because it was effecting my daughter and I in a very negative way and since then I haven't had a period. I know that when a woman is nursing sometimes her period doesn't come for a little while, but usually that's only if she is exclusively breast feeding and I'm not.
Anyway, I noticed my milk supply dropped rapidly suddenly even though I had gotten to the point where I wasn't having to give my daughter a bottle anymore and I started to think. I took two pregnancy tests and they were both negative, but I also know that urine tests are not as accurate as blood tests, but I didn't let it get to me or stress me out...just put it on the back burner, so to speak.
And we come to the conclusion of this pointless part, I told my husband today that I think I am pregnant. He immediately said, "We can't have it." Flat out. Even knowing how I feel personally on abortion. We argued about it and I know that we can't have another baby right now...and that if I was we couldn't keep it..or let it become a child to put up for adoption. But..he was..so cold about it. Saying that it didn't have a heartbeat yet..can't feel pain, etc...when he knows it does...
I need to know, I must know from someone who has had an abortion..what happens? What happened to you afterwords?
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Posted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 8:33 pm
Disease...
Disease is the love of two kinds of aliens creatures for each other.
>>//How far along would it be?
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Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2009 2:23 am
I'm not sure, anywhere from one to three months if it happened after my doctor okay'ed sex..and I know after three months I can't have an abortion in my state.
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Posted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 3:20 pm
hey, erm i had an abortion two years ago now so if you want details or stuff pm me
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Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 5:52 pm
Well, uh, I started my period last night, but I have a doctor's appointment next week. I'm going to tell her, of course, but will be too late to know for sure if I miscarried?
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Posted: Mon Apr 13, 2009 9:48 pm
Only way to know is to ask her. wink I would imagine that if it were recent, there might be some signs. Maybe something here might help?: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/FAQ/560If you want to speak to someone who's had an abortion, check through this subforum. In addition to the one person who's posted in this thread, I think there's a handful of other women who've had abortions.
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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2009 7:51 pm
Well, my doctor said I have nothing to worry about. No miscarriage, nor was I pregnant. Looks like I'm back to my old, irregular period having self. biggrin
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Posted: Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:08 am
Preston Trelsly Well, my doctor said I have nothing to worry about. No miscarriage, nor was I pregnant. Looks like I'm back to my old, irregular period having self. biggrin Good to hear. biggrin I'm glad everything's ok.
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Posted: Sun Apr 19, 2009 9:07 pm
My husband started talking about babies again. >_>;;
Anyway, you can delete this if you want to now. ^_^
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